Julie Demboski says, “As a practicing astrologer who’s been around for over half a century (!) I thought it might be time for me to offer a quick, free service for questions of the heart.”
Not currently taking questions, in large part because, for the past several years, people have failed to read and understand what follows before submitting. I’ve consistently received cherry-picked aspects or placements rather than the requested complete birth data, and I’ve made it clear many times in answering others that I don’t comment on isolated data points, simply because I don’t know the question submitter’s skill level–do they use orbs I consider too big? How do they know they’ve included all the bits that matter to that interpretation? Often when I see the entire chart, I see that individuals are blaming an aspect they’ve fixated on, rather than the real source of the trouble. Too, there seems to be an issue with individuals asking about bodies I don’t normally include–which means I haven’t studied them enough to be comfortable interpreting them under all circumstances, and there’s also an issue with individuals wanting information about synastry–and without the other person’s permission, it’s a no-go. These are all just common sense matters, and these questions aren’t supposed to stand in place of a consultation–they are meant to instruct and inform interested amateurs. So, until further notice, I won’t be accepting any questions.
If you’d like to submit a question on relationships: enter your question in the comments section for this post (questions will not be visible before they are chosen and answered). I’ll review submissions and choose which I’ll answer. If you’re asking a specifically astrology related question, please include relevant birth data (write out the month of birth, and use place names and local time, not co-ordinates–do not send charts or attachments of any kind), though I may use a horary, or no aids other than life experience, depending on the situation. You may sign with a pseudonym, and no identifying details will be shared with readers. There’s no guarantee your question will be chosen. Allow me time to choose and prepare material, and please do not contact me to see if I’ve gotten your question or to ask why I’m not using your question, or to ask for further advice, information, or recommendations; I am not able to answer individual emails. Those topics least likely to receive attention are questions of the ‘here’s our birth data, are we meant to be together/ what’s the meaning of this relationship?’ variety (long stories or many details do not change the basic nature of this), or questions about when, how, or where you will find love, simply because the only one who can learn anything from that is the questioner! and this is about offering advice many can use. Questions that fall into either of the two previously described categories, or that are highly specific to you and your interaction, are unlikely to be considered. The point here is to provide some light instruction on horoscope contacts cross-chart, not to address material that is more appropriate for a consultation. Please obtain permission before submitting any birth data other than your own. Expect me to be to the point and open with you about what I think–anything less would be no fun at all. Selected questions and answers will be featured in posts or, if very simple, below in comments.