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Julie Demboski says, “As a practicing astrologer who’s been around for over half a century (!) I thought it might be time for me to offer a quick, free service for questions of the heart.”
If you’d like to submit a question on relationships, please read and understand the following: enter your question in the comments section for this post (questions will not be visible before they are chosen and answered) I’ll review submissions and choose which I’ll answer. If you’re asking a specifically astrology related question, please include relevant birth data (write out the month of birth, and use place names and local time, not co-ordinates–do not send charts or attachments of any kind), though I may use a horary, or no aids other than life experience, depending on the situation. You may sign with a pseudonym, and no identifying details will be shared with readers. There’s no guarantee your question will be chosen. Allow me time to choose and prepare material, and please do not contact me to see if I’ve gotten your question or to ask why I’m not using your question, or to ask for further advice, information, or recommendations; I am not able to answer individual emails. Those topics least likely to receive attention are questions of the ‘here’s our birth data, are we meant to be together?’ variety (long stories or many details do not change the basic nature of this), or questions about when, how, or where you will meet love, simply because the only one who can learn anything from that is the questioner! and this is about offering advice many can use. Expect me to be to the point and open with you about what I think–anything less would be no fun at all. Questions and answers will be featured in posts or, if very simple, below in comments.
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Jillian
August 30, 2011 at 9:26 am
Hi,
What does it mean when in a synastry chart, my partner and my composite venus is in the 7th house (asc. in Libra making it the ruling planet of our chart), yet completely unaspected by other planets? I’ve read contradictory info on this – some say it means it becomes a dominant energy of the chart (I certainly hope so) some say it renders it insignificant. Thoughts appreciated!
Thank you!
Hi Jillian,
First, a synastry chart is different than a composite–synastry is a comparison of the individual charts to each other–this is a method I use–while composite meshes the two charts and makes a third–which I don’t use, as we can read a relationship accurately only when we look at how each person reacts to the other, and we see this specifically in the way the two charts aspect each other. There is no single blob that becomes ‘the relationship’ (though it certainly may feel like there is!) so in my view composites have little to tell us (though other astrologers use them and find them a successful measure of an interaction). You need to speak with someone who uses composites–sorry I couldn’t be more help! And good luck–
jd